If it didn't make me look even more flaming, I'd love to wear a scarf around my neck. I think that's a cool look. I associate it with 70's porn goddess, Seka. She always wore a red scarf around her neck…even during sex scenes.

There's so few fashion trends that you can glean from pornos.

Plus, I've always had an insecurity about my neck.

I had a period in Jr. High when I wore a turtleneck every day. Even when the weather got warm, I kept my neck covered. I thought it made my neck look bigger and my ears look smaller.

These days I wear a choker chain every day.

Before that a choker length leather band with a charm.

Maybe, like Seka, I just like the idea of a a physical divider between mind and body.

November 22, nineteen98